I received an SMS from a very close friend of mine yesterday morning. At 2 am he said his father has just died in Taiping. I feel so sorry for you bro, I hope you and family will be tough at this very difficult moments loosing your love ones.
I managed to speak to this friend of mine, Khairul, a guy I’ve known and are good friends since we were 16 years old, he did say that for me who still have my parents around, please stop fighting with them, love them more now, show more appreciation and affection to them as he will not have the opportunity to do so further with his late father.
That reminds me on how rebel I can be with my parents nowadays. My dad always say that I am a rebellious at a very wrong age. Well, I guess I am tired of being the obedient person, the give-in hardly to take-on type, the mengalah one. So nowadays I always jawab whatever my parents say or advise. Aida has been a very very very very very bad girl! Hmm…. So I called my dad out of the blue and appologise to him for all the trouble I have caused. Of course my father was really surprised, but he appreciates it. And he said to do the same to mom, I said, not yet……. reason being, I will definately cry. Was not in the mood to cry today. Dad say to do it sooner or later. So to everyone, please appreciate more of your parents while they are still alive. And always pray for them.
note : Aida tengah mood sentimental today.
Alfatihah to khairuls dad….
well..for u gal..ur friend is right…treasure ur parents but i believe there are ways we can convey our parents message without being rude…..
when emotional kicks in…thats when we cant control our anger, thus melawan cakap mak bapak..
take care dear…
takziah to your friend.
babah betul kalau dia kata you r rebellious at the wrong age … dah tua
, btw .. u should put a ‘live’ link that people can click on at your last post kat blogspot tu.
My condolonces to you friend, although it is a bit too late.
You are lucky to have both parents. Love them fully while you still have the chance. Remember old folks like to talk. You don’t have to talk back much. Always be near them and just be a good and attentive listener. You would be much loved daughter, guarantee.
aida..
last week you still tak use this website.
hey.. i truly understand what you’ve gone through. i am in the same shoes as you.
but looking at my senior advice, i try not to argue my parents. i try to please them as wht they want me too.. but deep in my heart.. i know i always be myself.
Minah : hehehe, thanks dear. I bukan lah selalu sangat menjawab, tapi when it comes marriage topic, itu very panas lah. I told them they have their say this year, so wait until kakteh’s wedding is over, then baru I kena tutup mulut, sbb then my parents sure full concerntrate kat daughter yang sorang ni.
azwan hadzree : live link? how la to do that?
east43street : I do love my parents very much. I only jawab them bab topik kawin saje, hehehehe
azwan hadzree : lupa cakap, at least kerenah kakngah ni okay lagi. Your other sister tu lagi susah nak handle, kekekeke (kakteh jgn marah eh kngah perli ni), although I must say she has really put the effort to change and be more gentle.
btw, kalau kngah dah tua, ayong lagi lah tua……. kekekeke jgn marah
wawa : hi dear, nanti june ni datang tak? lama tak jumpa you.